“The Great thing about game is that you don’t have to do everything perfectly, you only have to do well enough to get the girl”.

The pickup arts is very counter-intuitive and we as guys are often mislead by girls of what they are attracted to. Logically, women should be attracted to the type of guy who is caring and looks out for her. Someone who has the ability to listen to what she has to say and highly values her. However, this is not the case, women do like this but it’s just not what they are “attracted” to. The fact is there are a lot of attraction switches you can flick to attract a women, they include being challenging, preselected, funny, etc.

Attraction alone will not get a girl all the way though a pickup. You must be able to appeal to a variety of her emotions, keeping three main qualities high: attraction, qualification, and comfort. You may not believe everything you hear at first, but stick it in there and give it a try. You will be amazed at the results. Also check out our video vault to see real PUA’s do this in field and get great results!

The basic structure of courtship

Approach
If you want to be the type of guy who can pick up any girl, you have to be able to approach any girl. In our society it is generally up to the male to make the first approach. Mastering the approach will allow you to do this. The approach begins when you enter a venue or location where beautiful girls can be found, and continues through the first minute of conversation.

Transition
After you have opened to a set of girls, you need to move from your opener into a normal flow of conversation,  where you can talk about anything under the sun without the girl thinking “why is this guy talking to me”.

Attract
This is where things start to get interesting. You have transitioned into a normal flow of conversation and you need to build attraction with the girl. Here we learn about the different attraction switches you can use, and what indicators of interest (IOI’s) that a girl will subconsiously show when she feels attraction towards a guy.

Qualify
We always value what we have to work for. After you have attracted the target, you screen her and get her to prove to you that she is a potential suitor and meets your criteria of the perfect woman. You don’t have to make her work too hard but you have to make her feel like she has earned it for you to be attracted to her, not just because of her looks.

Comfort
This is after the girl has been qualified and you begin building rapport. Sleeping with a guy is a huge thing for a girl. The majority of women will not sleep with you unless you have built up some level of comfort and a connection – where you feel comfortable together and that you have a lot in common. This is where the girl starts to think of you as more than just a random guy she has met. This is where light physical touching can turn into a kiss, and the best time to get a phone number!

Seduction
Once the girl feels like she knows you and you both have a great connection, you can move on to a more seductive role. This is where you learn the do’s and don’ts of the bedroom and how to comfort her through the seduction phase. A lot of women will have an rush of anxiety right before sleeping with a man, let alone someone she just met. We have to comfortably guide a girl through this and exactly know what buttons to push to let her know she made the right decision.

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