Mis-Interpretation

This is a fun technique that we can use, it will often catch a girl off guard and can change a default reaction to something more interesting. It can also help us control the frame. This technique is simple, after a girl says something you mis-interperate either the words that she said, or the meaning behind them. Mis-interpretation is a great way to break rapport in order to build attraction. Often a girl will have her shields up and give you standard replies and yes/no answers. To break out of this we have to do something drastic to change the setting. One way would be to say something completely random (without demonstrating low social intuition), or we can change what they are saying though mis-interpreting what they are saying. So if they are giving you bad answers or you just wanna add some fun into the conversation then mis-interpret a word or its meaning. For example if an obstacle giving you problems says shes engaged you can say, “what your a gay?” because engaged can sound like gay. This will alter the dynamics and create a more fun mood. Never be too serious about the mis-interpretation and always be smiling.

Roll Reversal

Roll reversal is simply implying that the girl is trying to attract and seduce you. we do this though mis-interpreting her words, meanings or actions. By doing this we are demonstrating that we are challenging and adding fun to the interaction. The truth is that girls do game guys too, and they can be put on their toes when you pick out something that implies they are gaming you. Sometimes by creating this implication and having a strong hold over the frame the girl may even take up the role of gaming you, especially if you pull this technique off well and with good timing.

Examples

If you suggest that you should both meet up at a later date and she says “sure, can i have your number”, you can follow with “wow are you always this forward”

If a girl touches you, you can follow with “Hey hands off. You have to buy me a drink first”

Roll Play

This is a great way to create a conspiracy between your self and the target. You create a scenario and play it out with the girl. If you hold your frame and make the suggestion the girl will often play along. This creates an us vs them feel and teams you up with the girl. A simple example could be if your talking to the girl and another random guy comes up to talk and asks how you know her. You can then reply with “Oh we’ve been dating for sometime now, but lately her  cooking has been lacking, I donno… shes going to have to make up for it tonight”

Great roll plays

• being married
• being ex married

Cocky Funny

This is a hard technique to master. As is in the name it is to be funny in a confident cocky way. Be sure not to be too cocky as it can often come across as arrogant.

Teasing

Teasing is such a powerful tool in pickup.  One of the best ways to describe this is to act like your teasing your bratty little sister. You want to tease her as such. Make sure that your teasing isnt too personal and is done with a smile. You want her to know that your teasing her. If she teases back in the same way it can be counted as an IOI. Teasing is the essence of flirting.

Examples

• Your such a Brat/Dork

Kino Escalation

Kino stands for kinostetics and is a major part of pickup. If you have ever tried to kiss or make a move on a girl and been turned down it is likey that you have not built enough kino. Simply put kino is touch. You have to continually touch the girl thoughout the interaction as awkward as this may make you feel. Kino is a subject on its own and you should be a master of kino in order to master pickup, its another one of those vital parts.

The secret behind kino is subtlty. You want to be touching her within gestures and to help make a point.

Rules of kino

1. Never look where your about to touch
2. Dont lingue
3. Gusture, this way kino will appear natural rather than forced
4. Use a light touch
5. Dont make rapid movements, this will cause the girl to have a reflex action

Once you have begun kino you must escalate. Here are the levels of kino; where you should be touching and when. Use this as a guide, once you get better you will be able to use any form of kino at any time.

Friendly – when you first meet them; opening, transitioning, attraction

• Hand shake, high five
• Touch arm to hold attention, or make a point
• Touch shoulder to position of emphsise

Attractive – once you have created some attraction and recived some IOI’s

• Lower back
• Touch legs to make a point or to empahsise
• Touch hair when you notice something about it.
• Touch necklace or ear rings to have a better look – “wow thats a really nice necklace”
• Hug to empahsise friendlyness – “my god your cool afterall”
• Brush hair out of her face

Seductive – after you have built some comfort and you are moving into seduction

• Run hand though her hair
• Hold onto her waist
• Run hand along her side
• Run hand along her legs
• Inner thigh

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