Neg – Saying something bad in a playful manner about you or them

Kino – (Kinostetics) Touching

IOI – Indicator of Interest

Set – A group of girls (2 set, 3 set)

Mixed Set - A group of girls and guys

N close – get number

K close – get kiss

F close – sleep with the girl

Opener – A way to begin a conversation with a girl

Direct opening - go right up to her and introduce yourself and maybe an SOI

Indirect opening - go up to her and ask a question e.g. what would you recommend eating here?

SOI - statement of intent

Transition – Moving from the opener to a free flowing conversation.

HB – Hot babe

PUA – pick up artist

MPUA – master pick up artist

PUG – pick up guru

AFC - average frustrated chump

Escalation – Moving through the different phases of the Pick up arts structure

Kino Escalation: the movement from basic kino (touching her shoulder) to more intimate kino (touching her legs)

Target – the girl you’re after

Rapport – relating to the person, talking about favorite TV shows, sports, past times, exchange antidotes

PBE – Personal Broad Experience “Oh i can never be in finance, you must have an incredible mind, i can never do maths all day” “its fine, it’s not so much maths, a lot of fun stuff etc”

Disqualifiers – something you say to suggest you are not a good suitor, “Omg you do <?> it could never work between us”.  Neg is another way of disqualifying yourself, however don’t neg if she’s pushing away

Softener – Saying something to soften the mood “give me your number and the next time I’ll be in town, I’ll give u a call” (suggestive that her number isn’t too important)

Hook – missing piece of information to get her chasing it “Omg! Something reminded me of you” “Omg what is it?”. “<blah blah> is my second favorite thing about you” (don’t tell them what the first thing is). “I just a crazy idea of something we can do together” (build intrigue and test waters with it then come up with something) or (give her hints to soften her but keep her hooked and give her a surprise)

Peacocking: Where you ware something a little different to allow the girl to have something to talk to you about if she wishes to approach you

Cold Approach: approaching a girl or set that you have never met before

Qualification: Getting someone to prove to you that they are a good suitor for you

DHV: Demonstration of higher value

DLV: Demonstration of lower value

S&R Value: Survival and replication value

Gambit: A playful game that you do with a girl, that usually tests for compliance (whether she allows kino, answers a question) essentially she will be jumping into a hoop

Obsticle: A friend of the target who has the ability to block you out of conversing with the target or even take the target away.

AMOG: Alpha Male Other Guy / Alpha Male of the Group

Recommended reading: The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists

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